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To all men who reply womens’ ads published on Craigslist

I decided to write this post, cause I am sure I am not the only one who is dam tired of men’s foolishness on CL.

Men, who don’t get their responses to women’s ads to be answered, this post is for you. And don’t blame spammers. There are some spammers on CL, but mostly those are real women, and they don’t want to have a dumb man around them. And you clearly are acting dumb! That’s why they never answer some of you. Never.

I have just removed 7 out of 7 responses to my ad on CL. I didn’t answer. yesterday I removed 11 out of 12.

Do you know why?

People, when will you start acting sane when replying to CL ads?!!!

OK, Here my ad says “I am only looking for Long Term Relationship”. Why do you still send me letters with “I want nothing serious at this time”? Well, ok, let’s pretend, you jut looked at the picture and didn’t read the text even if it’s hard to miss in the header.

Then, my ad says “I am looking for SWM. And you are writing “I know you wanted a SWM, but I am a SBM” Why in the world you are writing to me? I am not interested! When you men, are clearly stating in your ads that you are not interested in BBW, what would you feel if some BBW sends you an email and says “Sorry, I know, you don’t like BBW, but I decided to write, cause I think - or I wish! - and hope when you know me you just stop despising BBWs and start loving me at once.” What do you feel? You feel anger and disappointment. Right. That’s what I feel when I clearly write “I only want a SWM” I receive 70% of responses from NON white men. Do you think there is a desire to answer those 70% responses? Hello, no.

Then, about your age, guys. My ad says that I want to meet people my age, but NOT OLDER THAN 42. And I get a lot of responses from men who are much older… People, why do you think it’s acceptable? Are you so desperate, out of self respect? Woman said NOT OLDER THAN 42. Do you think you will be an exception? Why? Here, one guy wrote me yesterday saying he’s 60. “I know you wanted a younger guy, but I am 60″ Hell, find a 60 year old woman. I am 37, and I want a man of my age. I may squeeze in, perhaps, 5 years. But it’s hard to find someone still firm and attractive over 45 years old in this country. So, why do you think a woman of 37, who is on peak of her sexuality, who wants long term relationship, maybe family, kids and age together with someone - why would she want a guy who looks like her father and will die before her kids mature? WHY!!!!! OK, there are some women around there to whom it will be acceptable, but when she clearly says NOT ACCEPTABLE - why are you still trying? You are freaking 60 years old, you are 23 (!!!) years older than her. Respect yourself, even if “you have a lot to offer” I can assure everyone, I have so much to offer, you guys may have never met anyone who can offer at least a half what I can offer. Still, I am not a tall thin blonde, so most of you, guys, don’t care…

Do you think that it’s fun to read “sorry, I am NOT what you want, but here I am”. And what in the world you expect me to do with you? Print you out and put on a shame wall? I wanna meet a guy, and you just make it more difficult, and only leave a feeling of sadness and despair, cause if 80% of men who write me are so incredibly missing their brain, it won’t be that easy to find someone who will be able to at least handle a simple conversation…

Now, about your pictures. CL allows sending 150 kb of pictures through their response system. Please, don’t tell me you didn’t send a picture cause CL doesn’t allow big sizes. 150 kb is 4 well compressed decent size pictures (about 400×500). If you don’t know how to compress your pictures, you are retarded. Gooogle “image compression” and get a free software that will help you do it. You don’t have to own expensive software. You just need to own any free small program that makes images smaller size and weight.

That’s why I have this requirement of you sending me a picture. First of all, I check if you read the text of the ad. Second, I make sure you respect what I asked for. And third, I check if your brain is bigger than walnut. If you send no picture - you failed all three. Do you think, someone wants a retarded man?

And last, but not least. For those who like to send nude pictures with your first email. You need to know one thing. Men and women are DIFFERENT. WOMEN don’t get attracted to you after they see your nude pictures! They get attracted to men through intrigue. it’s you, men, - you can see a naked woman, and you are ready. For women it’s completely different! When we look for decent relationship, picture of naked men’s body disgust most of us. It’s interfering our privacy, decency, crushing the borders. It’s not just unattractive, it makes us wanting to vomit. Unless, of course, you are responding to a “casual relationship” ad. In this case nude images are acceptable. In all other cases - don’t do it, for your sake, don’t!

I can tell you a lot about how to write the ad itself to make it interesting, how clear it is when you copy and paste the same text and send it to all women on CL hoping that it hits at least someone - and how funny and silly it looks. I could teach you how to make your CL adventure much more effective and pleasant not only for you, but for women as well. But I am not The Hitch.

I am just a woman who is very tired and annoyed by silliness and dumbness of your guys attitude and behavior. And I am pretty sure you are not as bad as you present yourself in your responses. It’s just you don’t know what to do and how to do it. And this post is for you to learn. Well, someone had to tell you this. Now you know.

I know, this post will be flagged soon, cause most of the people don’t want to know the truth. But I will keep the text and will post once in a while, Just so you don’t forget.

Good luck! Please, be smart!

:))