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About me. This time I nailed it. (in English)

We all know what we think we are. Or what we would like to be or seem… We want people to think of us certain way, cause we all want to look different, exceptional, unique, unlike anyone. But the thing is, we are similar, ordinary, and like everyone. And our uniqueness is just about the combination of very simple and common qualities.

But all of us have it all — kindness, anger, moments of weakness, talents, strength, and sense of humor, intelligence, ans silliness. Sometimes we are clumsy, and fearful, sometimes we can be brave and surprise even ourselves.

Well, something actually distinguishes us form the others.

How about this… I don’t live with my eyes closed. I’ve learned how to stop and smell the roses. And this gives me so much inspiration in life. Sometimes I get into daily thoughts overpowering routine, but I can stop and remind myself that the only way to stop being scared about something happening or — for that matter — not happening, - to just stop and think positive about the future. Love being positive. Creating my future. Daydreaming about what I love the most — and allowing it to happen.

And what I love the most?… Endless warmth — warmth of the sun, and warmth of hands. People smiling and being happy. Children singing. Love and affection. Seeing new places and exploring new destinations, driving across America. I love cities, their poetry, and language. I love taking pictures of the city and look for its spirit.

I love being creative — thinking, creating, making stuff, expressing my vision in something you can touch, love, and enjoy. Love cooking, inventing new dishes, being creative about it too, in a way. Love when friends come over — loved, close people.

I value closeness. Relationships to me are not just having a person to talk to, be with, and do stuff together. I do find a way to make it «the meeting» of not just two someone who we think we are or appear to be, but also the meeting of two who we really are. Those two entities, who show only when there is no fear, when there’s a complete trust, and sincerity. I am drawn towards that kind of communication — pure, sincere, open. I am fascinated by the concept of closeness… Some people live together for years and never actually «meet» - they don’t really know not only who they live with, but don’t even know who they are themselves.

So, who am I? I am a hopeless romantic. I am tough. I am smart ass. I am very deeply passionate and devoted. I am incredibly sexual, and my soul is endless like the ocean. When I love, I sparkle, when I give, everything around sparkles. When I sing, people listen.When I dream of something, it comes true.

But you may not see all of this under the shell of short fluffy dark haired brown eyed girl with a cute face, who is about to become 38, but is always told she is in her late 20s. You may never realize what an interesting journey you may start by deciding to get to know me better.

I believe all people could be divided into two categories: surfers and divers.

Surfers slide along the surface of their partner’s personality. They tend to value physical and visual aspects of the communication: looks, social status, way of live. Surfers are those who are «caught» having relationships with «lifestyle», not real person. What’s most important is that that personality doesn’t stand on their way to dating the lifestyle — this is the extent to which they are interested in someone they are with.

And there are divers. They may value visual and physical, and social status of their partners may still be important for them, but what really matters is that inner, the core — the Person. That Someone who is that unique world — that amazing Universe that lives in the heart of every single human being. You can only reach that Universe if you are willing to dive to the bottom of your partner’s heart. And only there — the real meeting of two real people is possible.

I am a diver. And I need my partner to be a diver. I want to meet deep down there, where it’s the most beautiful. It’s an amazing and unbelievable journey, and I know I can make it unforgettable.

How about you?

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